Here’s to the months that turned into years with the friends that turned into family. -Unknown
Developing and maintaining friendships take effort. The enjoyment and comfort friendship can provide, however, makes the investment worthwhile. It’s possible you’ve overlooked potential friends who are already in your social network. Think through people you’ve interacted with, even very casually, who made a positive impression.
You may find potential friends among people with whom:
• You’ve worked or taken classes
• You’ve been friends in the past, but have since lost touch
• You’ve enjoyed chatting with at social gatherings
• You share family ties
In addition, to develop new friendships, you might have to go to places where others are gathered. Don’t limit yourself to one strategy for meeting people. Be creative. The broader your efforts, the greater your likelihood of success.
Here’s some examples of ways to develop new friendships:
• Attend community events
• Extend and accept invitations
• Take up a new interest
• Join a faith community
• Take a walk
• Attend events at work
While developing and maintaining friendships takes time and great effort, you will be happier in the long run. There will always be someone in your social circle to spend quality time with or just to enjoy a night on the town.